turtle wandering through a forest

How long does it take to read a book?  What about writing a book? How about learning a language? How fast, just guess, can you learn a language? Unless you’re learning how to boil an egg, whatever it is you want to learn is going to take time. This seems obvious. But the idea that…Continue Reading “How Life Hacks Train You to Fail, or Everything You Want Takes Longer Than You Think”

Young boy with hat on looking out to sea on a beach

I’ve got this suspicion. I think you want to be more. I think what you are right now is not the fullness of what you want to be. What you always wanted to be. I think, deep down, that you think you’re more.  You believe you were meant to be more. Now I don’t mean…Continue Reading “How To Be Exactly Who You Want to Be Without Losing Who You Already Are”

A focused purple flower with a blurry pastoral landscape

There’s this insidious little rumor going around that having too many hobbies or interests is a bad thing?  Here’s the spoiler, if you’re not one for long intros: you can’t.  I don’t give a shit what anyone tells you. I don’t give a shit what anyone believes. There are no rules, spoken, written, or otherwise,…Continue Reading “Focus isn’t the Answer to Having too Many Interests”